love lockdown

i have two of my really close friends going through a tough time with there signifcant others. so it makes me ask myself why do we as humans put up with being treated bad? i mean we all are not perfect and we all are humans and we do make mistakes in relationships. but why do we put up with being treated like crap in relationships?! it amazes me how much people will take and things they go through because they 'love' someone. man that love it does silly things to people make them act all sorts of crazy. i mean i have not always been in perfect relationships, but looking on from the outside in you def get a good look at it. don't we all just wanna be happy? dont we all want the freedom to do what we want when we want? dont we all want to trust?. i think we all deserve to be happy. relationships are 50 50. it is all about the communication. the trust. and you know what just having a good time with each other. it should be nothing more or less. it shouldn't be that hard. well i think it shouldn't be that hard. relationships are something that always need to be worked on. but it is another thing, if you know you aren't happy. and you stick around and stay. come on. get out and be happy. life is just way to short not to be happy. so if you aren't happy. get that backbone and leave. be strong. and dont look back. and find that one person in life who will treat you right...i just think because of all the stuff that has gone on in my life in past relationships...im not gonna put up with guys and being treated like crap. we all deserve our happy ending. our fairytale. and our prince charming to come in on a white horse and saving the day. yes maybe i am stuck in fairtale land...but i think ( yes even guys you too...you deserve your princess too...) everyone needs to be happy. happy in life. happy in relationships. be content with who you are. and if you find that someone who makes you a better person. dont let them go. just be happy.

also...i am doing this biggest loser thing at work. and i have lost a total of 5.5 pounds in 3 weeks :) and i was the biggest loser this week!!!! :). not like i am trying to loose a ton of weight...but summer is a coming...and you all know what that means...bathing suit time. trying to look good ya know :) haha.

things in life right now. are amazing. im just really happy, happier than i have been in awhile and it is crazy how life can turn around in only just a few weeks ;)

there's alot that i dont know, there's alot that im still learning.

so it has been a little while that i have blogged. since i know someone reads this ;) hehe. but there has been a lot of stuff going on. the lastest and the greatest i have been sick it feels like FOREVER. i am so over having the sniffles it isn't funny. i am feeling 100% better. but the whole house hold has been sick for like a week or so. brendan. linz. and rob. but were getting there. i was out of work for two days last week.

so the dumbest movie ever....would be this one. 

 

last night linz and i had 'sister time' so we were like lets get a movie. we were both looking forward to the movie. well it was over and she and i were looking at each other like what the heck was that? oh yes....the suckest movie ever. i guess what i got out of it. was that love gives second chances. and where you might least expect it. but really....read the book dont go see the movie. 

but really...i agree with the whole love and second chances. i mean for some people they get it right the first time. but for the majority of the rest of the world. it takes us a few chances to find that someone that we 'love'. but again. love is worth the risk of getting your heartbroken a few times to find your best friend and to find that someone who you will spend the rest of your life with. im ready to do that. ;)

so i am SO PUMPED for concert season. really. im way overdue for a good concert. my list is def. growing. guess i need to save save save. so that i can actually get to these shows. if you know what i mean. last summer concert season was the BOMB and i to see a lot of people that i hadn't before...and this summer is shaping up to do the same thing. i am SO excited. im ready... because i am over this whole rain that we have had for like 3 days straight now...crazy. haha. summer where are you? 

things have been really good these last few weeks....im really excited and ready for summer and hanging out with my friends and my family. i have a feeling it is going to rock :)