SO...Friday...i went out with my friend Sam, she works with me. we went out to celebrate Jessica's 21st! we had dinner at cheeseburger in paradise. we ate talked hung out. it was fun. then we went to CJ's the Karaoke bar at the bowling alley. one of my good friends works there, and wanted us to stop by and well it is just fun to watch people sing. sing a long and have a good ole time. so sam and i sat and talked laughed and hung out. it was nice. since we can't always act silly at work. she actually saw some people she knew so we were all talking. she had to leave since she had to work the next day...but DANG i wish she would have stayed. so i was sitting there talking to diana ( my friend who works at the bar) and friends. this guy approaches me. sits down and starts talking to me. i was like well ok....so he was asking what to do around here blah blah blah...well i was like trying to get him to pick up the point that well...i wasn't interested...so i turned and started to talk to my other friend who was there too...we were just laughing and having a good ole time. then he tires and start to talk to me again...i didn't want to be mean so i listen to what he had to say...he stopped talking to i turned to my friend to talk to him again...( i know you are wondering why are you telling me this...here it is...) the guy who walked up to me ( i didn't even catch his name...) starts to tell my friend that and i quote...." where can i go and get some hot girl....hotter than her ( talking about me)...and someone easy?" i know what you are thinking..." did he really just say that???"....oh yes he did...then he goes on and on about "how my friend can do so much better than me"..."why would he waste his time on me"...that "he knows my friend has had better than me"...blah blah blah...might i say that i have NEVER been so disrespected by a STRANGER!!!! so at this point...i am thinking to myself "whoa is he really saying this??"
1. he doesn't even know me...and that is straight disrespect.
2. well i still have my V-card. and i intend to hold on to that until i am married and give that gift to my husband. it is only for my husband, not some guy who comes up and tries to give me a line.
3. im not that girl...im not "easy"...i don't even put off that i am.
4. was he mad that i wasn't giving him what he wanted?..my bad but im not that girl, guys you can't always get what you want.
5. he is making guys look really bad at this point. who really says that??
6.respect, respect, respect, respect
7. i am sorry that he lives like this and thinks that it is ok to talk to girls like this, didn't his mother teach him better???.( yes these are all the thoughts that are going through my mind at the point he is saying all this)
So i tell him that he just needs to leave that no one really cares what he is saying...at this point?...i could not believe this...i was so upset...i mean really WOW who really says that?? So i had to get out of there...i walked out!! just to cool off...really who says that?? if you know me, i am SO big on RESPECT...you RESPECT me and i will RESPECT you... it is really that easy people ( try it on for size...i bet you like what you get...) this guy we will call him Mr. Disrespect. ( AKA Mr. D for short)...did he know me? did he know what i stand for? did he know what i believe?... so after i cooled down...i come back into the bar to see my honor being defended. my other friend was like..." you don't know her..", " you don't disrespect a girl like that", " you made her feel uncomfortable...that is just wrong"...blah blah blah ( these are good blah blah blah's )...so everyone had it out...even diana had to put people in their place...i felt like a little kid who totally just got beat up and i didn't even know what to say...so after a little while...i went home...totally had enough for the evening and wanted to leave...so i just am mulling over this when i was driving home, laying in bed, waking up the next morning, the next day so on and so forth...i feel so sad, mad and pukey ( is that a word...) all at the same time...
Soap Box Time...i feel so sad that people actually live their lives like this. don't they know that they were made for something so much bigger and better!! i feel so sad that people my age or even younger have no self respect anymore. they will just go out and get the next best thing. they don't care who is hooking up with who. don't just settle for someone who is going to disrespect you. i feel that i am like i am trying doing my best with my life, making the best decisions possible ( and not i am NOT perfect and yes i have messed up and yes made the wrong decisions) i am trying and be a Light in this dark little world we live in. People call me weird, people but me down, but these are my morals and my beliefs and you will be shocked but their are still people out there who care about morals etc. SO make fun of me do whatever...but sometimes it is SO hard to not let people and peoples words get in the way. ( like they did on Friday night)
Also to Mr. D whoever you are...and to guys reading this...1. puting a girl down just wrong. 2. it is all about respect. 3. girls don't like to be looked at like a piece of meat. girls want to be loved, RESPECTED, we like romance etc. 4. there are actually girls out there who respect themselves. 5. when a girl has morals, and beliefs, listen to them, respect them, because they mean something to us.
I say all of this...it is JUST A THOUGHT life is all about respect. respecting each other in relationships, at your job, with your family...guys...respect girls. you will be amazed what you will get in turn. sometimes you should just shut your mouth instead of puting some random chick down...who you have NO idea about. and what she stands for. girls...respect yourself! you mean something to someone. either to you mom or your dad, your boyfriend. your friends. who ever it is in your life. you have meaning and you are not a piece of meat. you deserve to be respected by anyone or anything in your life. ( i am not saying that guys don't deserve respect...cuz we all do:))
ok really i feel like this is a bunch of blah blah... and is really prob really hard to follow but don't people want to be RESPECTED?? It is a TWO way street. so start respecting those around you...don't just be mean to be mean...
RESPECT this is what it means to me...
that guy disgusts me. he was probably lord twizteddd.
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