love lockdown

i have two of my really close friends going through a tough time with there signifcant others. so it makes me ask myself why do we as humans put up with being treated bad? i mean we all are not perfect and we all are humans and we do make mistakes in relationships. but why do we put up with being treated like crap in relationships?! it amazes me how much people will take and things they go through because they 'love' someone. man that love it does silly things to people make them act all sorts of crazy. i mean i have not always been in perfect relationships, but looking on from the outside in you def get a good look at it. don't we all just wanna be happy? dont we all want the freedom to do what we want when we want? dont we all want to trust?. i think we all deserve to be happy. relationships are 50 50. it is all about the communication. the trust. and you know what just having a good time with each other. it should be nothing more or less. it shouldn't be that hard. well i think it shouldn't be that hard. relationships are something that always need to be worked on. but it is another thing, if you know you aren't happy. and you stick around and stay. come on. get out and be happy. life is just way to short not to be happy. so if you aren't happy. get that backbone and leave. be strong. and dont look back. and find that one person in life who will treat you right...i just think because of all the stuff that has gone on in my life in past relationships...im not gonna put up with guys and being treated like crap. we all deserve our happy ending. our fairytale. and our prince charming to come in on a white horse and saving the day. yes maybe i am stuck in fairtale land...but i think ( yes even guys you too...you deserve your princess too...) everyone needs to be happy. happy in life. happy in relationships. be content with who you are. and if you find that someone who makes you a better person. dont let them go. just be happy.

also...i am doing this biggest loser thing at work. and i have lost a total of 5.5 pounds in 3 weeks :) and i was the biggest loser this week!!!! :). not like i am trying to loose a ton of weight...but summer is a coming...and you all know what that means...bathing suit time. trying to look good ya know :) haha.

things in life right now. are amazing. im just really happy, happier than i have been in awhile and it is crazy how life can turn around in only just a few weeks ;)